Are you experiencing the full potential of love?

Love comes in many shapes and forms

Whenever anyone speaks of love, they are often referring to romantic love between two people. I believe that love is infinite and can come in many forms. If romantic love was the only form of love, it would be quite exclusive and in limited quantities. It would be a hard world with only this type of love available to give and receive.

Fortunately for us love comes in many forms – parental, family, friends, pets, yourself. All of the important people in your life are available for you to love. In my view love is infinite and the more of it in your life, the richer it will be. Some people believe that you cannot possibly love a step or adopted child as much as a biological child. I disagree with this view. I think the choice is yours to decide how much you open your heart to love a person. read more

Remaining calm through the festive season

The festive season is meant to be a time of joy – being with loved ones, a rest from work or studying, giving and receiving gifts.

The reality is often far removed from the intention. Experiences can range from too many people in the house with tensions between the generations or individuals, to someone on their own feeling left out and extremely lonely.

The preparations for gatherings and gifts can be onerous taking the joy from the occasion.

If you are experiencing feelings of being overwhelmed, financial stress or dread of the December festivities, it is time to take a step back and evaluate what you want this time to bring for you and your loved ones. read more

Music to uplift your soul

I had the pleasure of meeting Bridget Wolf. She is lively and fun plus a lady of many talents. Music was her original love but this has now blossomed into many spiritual gifts including healing and giving messages from past loved ones.

I love her music and find it very uplifting. Have a listen and see for yourself. The one that makes me feel really good is Life is Precious. It really resonates with my soul and reflects my views on life being a gift. I have downloaded it so I can listen to it again whenever I want to. read more

Rumi’s Reflections: Alison Wem’s Journal – Day 12

Everyone is overridden by

thoughts; that’s why

they have so much

heartache and sorrow.

Jalal al-Din Rumi

Having a strong intellect and the ability to reason things through is valued in society. Yet I observe the pressure the school system puts on our young people to ever obtain higher grades. I do wonder if we are robbing them of their childhood. It should be full of natural curiosity and discovery. Yet there is little time at school or perhaps at home to allow this to happen.

As a child, I enjoyed lovely days of ‘messing around in the garden or park’ looking at flowers, plants and insects, building camps and playing with water. Are children still able to regularly do this and come into bed tired and dirty? read more

Who loves you unconditionally?

Who gives you unconditional love when you need it most?

We all need unconditional love at some point in our lives.

Life can be full of challenges.

When you have lost something or someone you love and value, is when you are most likely to need comfort and support. Perhaps you have lost a child, partner, home, business or a job. All can leave you feeling bereft and upset as if your whole life is falling apart.

Even in adulthood, you can often crave your mum or someone else special whom you loved as you were growing up. From as early as you can remember, your mum was the one who picked you up when you had fallen over. read more

Healing: tips on helping it to happen

Relax and know that healing can help no matter what the state of your health is at the time. It often works silently away without you being away of it. It is not just for the time you might have a healing session or do a healing meditation. When you ask for help it does arrive.

Having worked as a healer for many years, my observations and tips on healing are;

  • Relax and allow the healing to happen. Your soul knows you well and will guide the healing you need. It will silently continue long after your healing session. Healing often comes with messages of love and support from those you love who have already passed. They were always there for you and continue to be there for you, people such as parents and partners.

Healing will take place whether you believe in it or not.

  • Practice relaxing techniques such as taking three deep breaths or walking in nature alone. Illness often brings worry and anxiety, so anything that helps you to relax is worthwhile. It is hard to live from a place of anxiety and fear.

Learn to live from a place of calmness.

  • Even if you know you are terminally ill, healing can help you to relax. It brings in a calmness so you might enjoy the time left to you. There is often a significant reduction in the pain normally expected with your illness. I have heard clients say when they receive healing, they feel truly at peace. But importantly, receiving healing ahead of passing helps to build a stronger bridge between your loved ones in spirit and those on earth. As you start to transition from earth your communication to loved ones in spirit is clearer. When you have passed, you are more easily able to help your grieving loved ones you left on earth.

No healing is wasted.

Healing offers you the opportunity to live the best life you can. Life is a gift and it’s for living and enjoying. read more

Needing some extra love?

Feeling in the need of an extra hug and some love?

The perceived wisdom is that you should be able to love yourself and not have to rely on someone else to provide the love in our life. I find this hard or perhaps I lack the imagination to know how to love myself. So I will let you into my secret on how to boost the love in your life.

When I was training as a medium, our teacher asked her students to feel the love attached to some cards she had received from friends and family and to read the messages, When someone sends you a card their love attaches to it and arrives with card on your door mat. read more