Life Lessons

Articles and views on the life lessons or skills we may be learning. Opportunities to learn our lessons are repeatedly presented to us in the form of people and situations. Once a lesson is learnt these learning opportunities are no longer presented. Analyzing our life to date helps us to understand the particular lessons we may be learning.

Life is for living and enjoying

Life is for living and enjoying.

Gain insight into yourself to understand who you are and where your life is going.

Are you happy with your life or trying to break through a barrier or repeated behaviour pattern?

Perhaps you might want to choose a different way of being in your life to achieve a different result….. The choice is yours.

Your life choices and how you choose to interact with others, creates the life you experience.

If you have a question or want to make an enquiry about intuitive guidance, creative therapy or mediumship, contact me, Alison Wem, Here read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Men: the secrets of surviving Christmas

The approach to Christmas can be a challenging time. Not only is it a busy time for the person preparing the Christmas Day celebrations, but tension can run in families where couples do not agree on the style of celebrations. Do you recognise the scenario?

Lets look at some tips for the man of the house…..

Tip #1  Remember your partner is doing their best to make Christmas a joyous and happy time for all. A little encouragement can go a long way.

Tip #2 Rather than complain about the amount of money being spent, try to find some alternative treats or better still make or cook some. read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Should relationships last a lifetime?

This is a big life question and there is no easy answer.

I have dared to give my views and guidance on how to improve your relationships. I believe we live our lives through relationships, so anything we can do to gain more insight into them can add quality to our lives.

Listen to the video and let me know your views – do the messages resonate or do you have a different view?

You will be glad to hear that this weeks video will be running from YouTube so the quality should be better.

Video – Should relationships last a lifetime?

Reflecting on the relationships in your life and what life lessons they may be trying to help you to learn is a key aspect of Your Soul Family. I will be releasing a free chapter from my new book, Finding Your Soul Family, which covers this topic.

Check at www.yoursoulfamily.com to get your copy.

By Alison Wem, ago

Trust: how important is it in our everyday lives?

I suspect like many people, currently I am struggling with trusting people in power to do the right thing for the country. So often it seems that many of their actions are about personal positioning to remain in power rather than common sense to improve the quality of everybody’s life.

In the UK this has come into sharp focus with the Brexit negotiations. Much of what was promised is not in the exit deal. Were we not able to negotiate these items or has the Government broken trust? We all appreciate it is a negotiation so we will not get all that we want. To ensure trust is maintained, clear communications are required.

Many times in public and private lives I see trust challenged through poor communication and misunderstandings. read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Black Friday: do you like to receive gifts at no cost?

Black Friday is nearly upon us again. Where has that year gone…

Is your inbox filling up with offers for Black Friday. Mine is without doubt. Have I been so click happy all year that I am now on so many email lists that I lost count?

My inbox is so full that I am finding it difficult to sift out the work and family emails from those that offer me a gift. It is driving me crazy.

When someone comes into your life unexpectedly, look for the gift that person has come to receive from you. To come into someone’s life is a privilege and comes with a purpose.

Be a gift to everyone who comes into your life and to everyone whose life you enter. How great would our world be if we each did this. Gifts do not have to cost anything. They can be an act of kindness, a hug when someone is finding life hard, a cup of tea at the end of a long and busy day.

In receiving a gift from you, the person is giving you a gift – the gift of experiencing who you are and fulfilling who you want to be.

Be careful not to enter someone’s life if you cannot be a gift.

If you have a question or want to book an appointment with me, Alison Wem, for intuitive life guidance, creative therapy or mediumship, contact me Here

Tel: +44 7966 137568  Email: alison.wem@yoursoulfamily.com

Available face-to-face or via Skype depending on location.

By Alison Wem, ago

Remembrance Sunday: what is the value of remembering the past?

On Remembrance Sunday 2018 in the Tower of London around 10,000 candles were lit in the dry moat to remember those who fell in World War 1.

The event started with smoke drifting as in the battle fields of France.

A single flame was carried from the Tower. The flame was passed across the field, slowly the candles were lit to represent those who had fallen.

 

Eventually the whole Tower was circled with light. It was a moving display with the candle lighters creating shadows on the Tower walls like a tableau of soldiers in ‘no-mans land’ and haunting music was playing.

See the final result Tower of London Candles

Listening to soldiers from many different conflicts, the meaning of Remembrance Sunday is to remember the;

  • companionship and love for their colleagues, some of whom did not come home
  • past to be able to create a better future.

These acts of homage have taken place in many parts of the world. It is a key Life Lesson of ‘living peaceably’ we are re-enforcing to all and teaching to the young. These are very visual displays and re-enforce the numbers of people involved when things go wrong.

As we remember times of conflict when were did not succeed in finding a peaceable solution, we are recognising the cost of this in human lives.

There are better ways to live and in doing so we will create a better future

If you have a question or want to book an appointment with me, Alison Wem, for intuitive life guidance, creative therapy or mediumship, contact me Here

Available face-to-face or via Skype depending on location.

By Alison Wem, ago