Can love endure a life changing personal injury?
You might think that you have to do something unusual to result in a life changing injury. This is not always the case.
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You might think that you have to do something unusual to result in a life changing injury. This is not always the case.
There is truth in the saying that you can be
‘Lonely in a crowd.’
Loneliness comes in many forms, possibly you might recognise some of them;
Living in a town or city it is too easy to slip into an urban life and lose touch with nature. Yet it is while experiencing nature that often we feel more alive, happy and well. Many people pursue a sport such as sailing, canoeing or horse riding that brings you close to nature. However staying in touch with nature can be as simple as a walk in the park. It can be equally exhilarating as jumping a hedge with a horse.
Last week on my daily walk the sky opened and it poured with hard, thunder rain. I had a choice of turning for home or continuing to the park. I went for the park and I was not disappointed.
Over the year-end festivities the structure of life often suffers with school out, shops only half-open and businesses only ticking over. Getting back into the full flow of life in January is tough. What better time than to go for a long walk and talk with a friend, colleague or loved one.
Walking amongst the trees with your eyes scanning the green landscape relaxes the mind and rests your body. The gentle movement of walking eases the muscles and makes your body feel at ease. Greenery is accessible to all. Even in a city, a green park is not far away.
How can you say all relationships are a win:win when it might be with my manager who fired me or perhaps with a partner who left me?
Why are relationships so hard?
December is a good month to say ‘thank you’ to your loved ones for being in your life and for all they do with and for you.
Thank you to partners who has worked hard all year to build a home and provide for their family.
Thank you to the mothers who have brought together a happy Diwali, Christmas or any other festival in your culture on top of their normal family duties.
Thank you to friends who have just been there for you, to laugh and cry with you.
Thank you to the children who have brought joy and love into your life even if it also brings you challenges.
Serious illness in either yourself or a loved one can cloud your life and make living hard. Yet our most challenging moments can also be an opportunity to learn a life lesson. Perhaps this is an opportunity to practise unconditional love, patience or listening without judgement.
Tense times waiting for a medical result is