Your Soul Family

We seek calmness and the wisdom to be found there by building and painting a soul map back to our unconscious mind or soul. We seek to show others how to do it. The Your Soul Family (YSF) logo represents transformation and learning.

A soul map is a geometric picture that represents you and the key people in your life along with the relationships you have and the key life lessons you may be learning.

Be the change…..

You must be the change you want to see in the world- Mahatma Gandhi

When you alter your thoughts, change your beliefs, how you feel and actions you take, you change the world around you. As your actions become your habits, your inner world shifts and you start viewing the world through the same lenses. What we see and how we experience the world is through our tinted glasses.


I might not be in control of what happens around me, but I am in total control of how I react to it. You are in control of how you think, feel, perceive and respond to someone or something around you. read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Happiness: can you sustain the feeling of joy

We all want to be happy. As a parent, the greatest gift is for your child to be happy. But how do you go about being happy?

Happiness arrives in the moment. It is that feeling of joy that bubbles up from within you.

How do you sustain that joy beyond the moment?

Alison Wem gives 3 approaches to sustaining joy. 

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If you relate to this article and need some more help and guidance in your life Get in touch with Alison. Here are her contact details.

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Tel: +44 7966 137568  Email: alison.wem@yoursoulfamily.com read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Psychic Fair, Sunday 9th June – Chessington, Surrey

There are lots of things you can try – tarot, angel cards, dowsing, crystals, healing and much more. If you are a shopper like me, there is jewellery, books, spiritual gifts and much more for sale. This fair aims to be enjoyable and affordable.

Entrance is only £3 and there are free workshops to attend as well. Something for every taste. But I hope you choose Irene. Oops I probably should not have said that but I do feel it…..

Irene Glour, Spirit Artist, will be at the fair. She is becoming very popular and there is always a queue at her stall. To be sure to get a session with, why not book a time, call Irene on 07746 820491 read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Irene Gloux: Spirit Art workshop

What a fantastic workshop Irene gave on using spirit art to understand who is trying to communicate with us and to receive some messages. No artistic skills were needed. However we all managed to draw portraits which looked life like and recognisable by ourselves or the person we were working with.

We did other exercises looking at ourselves from different perspectives, our energy over our lifetime, our aura and sunsets with messangers and messages. Everyone created beautiful pictures which were meaningful to themselves. read more

By Alison Wem, ago

3 tips to silence your internal critical voice

We all have an inner voice which many of us chat to for years without know who they are. I like to call it my ‘Inner You’. Others call it a different name depending on their beliefs – sub-conscious, higher self, soul. I like ‘Inner You’ as it is more familiar and is also secular.

How do you find your Inner You? It can be your greatest friend, always with you in good times and bad. Yet many of you experience your inner voice as highly critical which can affect your self-esteem and erode your self-confidence so that you do not feel able to act. read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Families who eat together stay together

Its is Spring Bank Holiday in the UK so it seemed right to talk about families and how we can improve the time we spend together. My observation is there are many benefits from families who eat together.

In our busy 21st century lives, there is a trend towards families eating their meals from trays watching TV rather than sitting to a table and facing each other.  Likewise teenagers, if allowed, will take their food and eat in their bedrooms.

Eating a meal at a table together as a family strengthens the family bond.  Over the meal conversation will flow backwards and forwards between parents, between parents and children.  By sharing their day’s news, family members are more involved with each others lives.  This gives opportunities to support one another and for parents to guide a child. read more

By Alison Wem, ago

3 tips on keeping positive about your life

How does life feel to you?

Are you feeling a little down about life, comparing yourself unfavourably with others or curious about ideas to make life better?

Alison Wem offers 3 tips on how you can look at your life from a more positive perspective. Just knowing the tips can help you to feel more in control of your life. For many feeling their life is not their own can be a depressing thought.

Start to change that today by taking a step towards consciously steering your own life. It can be a liberating feeling. You are never too old or too young to try something new. read more

By Alison Wem, ago