Do you choose to live a life or a living?

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Life is full of choices. You are given the free will to make your own choices. Your choices affect how your life unfolds.

Of course for our own well-being, we all need a safe and comfortable place to live, food on the table and clothes to wear. Once you have those, what choices do you make on where to spend your time and energy?

Do you choose the extra overtime for the cash? Or perhaps to do those evening emails to help you climb the corporate greasy pole?

Are you choosing to live a life or a living?

What is your state of being?;

  • reacting to life as it comes
  • consciously choosing how you want to spend your life.

Humans natural state is joy

How much joy have your choices brought into you life? I hope it’s lots! But for many this is not the case. Life has become all about making money, just getting through another day….

When I was in a busy corporate life, I came home to my young daughter in her pink pyjamas wearing her pink wellington boots and holding a highly coloured watering can her grandparents had bought her that day. She was waiting for me to use her beautiful watering can she was so proud of.

Still in my business suit, we went into the garden together and watered my daughter’s flowers.

I felt real joy and it is one of my happiest memories of my daughter’s childhood. I experienced more joy in those 10 minutes than perhaps in my whole week. I still remember the experience vividly 30 years later.

 

 

When you feel joy it radiates from you and affects those around you. They feel uplifted in their lives too. In a state of joy, you experience a feeling of peace.

Join me in this reflection to remember your joy and experience it again.

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Building Discipline: A Path to Inner Strength

Consistency in physical fitness is a form of discipline, and discipline has a profound spiritual impact. By showing up for yourself, whether lifting weights, running, or practicing yoga, you cultivate self-respect and resilience.

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Have you ever felt completely in the zone during a run or weightlifting session? That flow state – where time seems to disappear – is a meditative experience. Physical activity helps quiet the mental chatter, grounding you in the present moment.

Running, cycling, or even walking outdoors can become a spiritual practice when done mindfully. Focus on your breath, the rhythm of your steps, or the sensations in your body. In these moments, exercise transforms into a moving meditation, connecting your mind, body, and spirit.

The Mind-Body-Spirit Connection

Physical fitness bridges the gap between the physical and the spiritual. When your body feels strong and energised, your mind is clearer, and you’re better equipped to connect with your spiritual self. Exercise boosts endorphins, reduces stress, and creates a sense of inner calm that can enhance prayer, meditation, or introspection.

A healthy body also serves as a vessel for spiritual growth. Focusing on higher aspirations is easier when you’re not weighed down by fatigue or poor health.

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  • Stay Consistent: Approach your routine as a sacred practice, showing up even when motivation wanes.
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  • Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge small victories as reflections of your growing strength—inside and out.

By combining physical fitness with mindfulness and discipline, you’ll discover a deeper connection to your spirit, proving that strength isn’t just physical – it’s spiritual, too.

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So where did sound healing come from? 

 

Sound healing is not a newly discovered alternative wellness method. Ancient Civilizations, such as Ancient Egypt and Australian Aborigines, used sound healing. The Aboriginals used a wind instrument known as a didgeridoo. This instrument is played with the lips vibrating on one end to produce a sound through the other end. Aborigines were able to detect broken bones and torn muscles through didgeridoos.

 

 

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