Know yourself faster: 6 effective ways to gain insight into you

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Look for re-occurring challenges

Life can be full of challenges.  Re-occurring challenge are indicative that a life lesson is being learnt.  I had increasingly difficult managers who
expected me to work all times of the day and week.  It was only when I realised that I was not signaling my boundaries and holding to them did this situation improve.  Many challenges are of our own making.

What life lessons are the people in your life learning? – they may be yours too

Sometimes life lessons like listening or not shouting run in families.  What do you find most irritating about your parents?  Are you like them?  Perhaps there is a lesson there for you too.

Listen to your ‘inner you’

Some call your ‘inner you’ your sub-conscious, higher self, or soul depending on your beliefs.  I like to call it my ‘inner you’ as we have chatted for as long as I can remember and we feel very familiar.  Your ‘inner you’ talks to you in many different ways such as through feelings, knowing, words in a song on the radio or on a bill board.  As you strengthen your communication you will get to know what works for both of you.

Your ‘inner you’ will always have your best interest at heart and can provide good guidance in your life.  These are the clear thoughts that happen in moments of calm.  Learn to trust the messages they bring.

Just STOP for a moment and feel what is important to you

In the 21st century everyone is always connected via phones, tablets etc and rushing about to a hectic schedule.  STOP and for a few moments listen to your ‘inner you’ and feel what is right for you at this time in your life.  It may just be a refreshing few moments of calmness to make the rest of you day more productive.  Enjoy those moments…

Build a soul map and reflect on it

Want to build your personal calmness and wisdom?  Consider investing your time in building a soul map which is a geometric picture that represents you and your life.  As you construct it you gain insight into who you are and where you are going.  The picture reminds you of this information and you can reflect on it to re-experience the calmness you felt when you coloured it.  When I was in a corporate job I used to keep my soul map on my desk and at moments of stress flicker my eyes across it to feel the calmness.  It helped me to cope with my often chaotic days.

Ask your ‘inner you’ a question

Your ‘inner you’ is your best friend.  Do not be afraid to ask a question about your life or a situation you are in.  Just keep the question simple to aid clarity.  Your ‘inner you’ might not give you the answer you desire, but it will always be an honest answer and the one you need to hear for where you are in your life.

Do you chat to your ‘inner you’?  Do let me know your views by commenting below.

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Strengthening Body and Spirit: The Hidden Benefits of Fitness and Discipline

In a fast-paced world, physical fitness is often seen as a way to stay healthy and look good. But what if exercise could do more than that? What if it could also strengthen your spirit and deepen your sense of purpose? When approached with discipline, physical fitness offers incredible spiritual and mental benefits that go far beyond.

Building Discipline: A Path to Inner Strength

Consistency in physical fitness is a form of discipline, and discipline has a profound spiritual impact. By showing up for yourself, whether lifting weights, running, or practicing yoga, you cultivate self-respect and resilience.

Discipline teaches you to embrace discomfort for the sake of growth, a principle that mirrors spiritual practices like meditation or fasting. Over time, sticking to your fitness routine strengthens not just your body but also your willpower and ability to navigate challenges in other areas of life.

Movement as Meditation

Have you ever felt completely in the zone during a run or weightlifting session? That flow state – where time seems to disappear – is a meditative experience. Physical activity helps quiet the mental chatter, grounding you in the present moment.

Running, cycling, or even walking outdoors can become a spiritual practice when done mindfully. Focus on your breath, the rhythm of your steps, or the sensations in your body. In these moments, exercise transforms into a moving meditation, connecting your mind, body, and spirit.

The Mind-Body-Spirit Connection

Physical fitness bridges the gap between the physical and the spiritual. When your body feels strong and energised, your mind is clearer, and you’re better equipped to connect with your spiritual self. Exercise boosts endorphins, reduces stress, and creates a sense of inner calm that can enhance prayer, meditation, or introspection.

A healthy body also serves as a vessel for spiritual growth. Focusing on higher aspirations is easier when you’re not weighed down by fatigue or poor health.

Practical Tips to Blend Fitness and Spirituality
  • Set Intentions: Begin your workouts with a simple intention, such as gratitude or focus.
  • Stay Consistent: Approach your routine as a sacred practice, showing up even when motivation wanes.
  • Incorporate Nature: Exercise outdoors to connect with the earth and breathe fresh air.
  • Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge small victories as reflections of your growing strength—inside and out.

By combining physical fitness with mindfulness and discipline, you’ll discover a deeper connection to your spirit, proving that strength isn’t just physical – it’s spiritual, too.

Try any form of exercise you enjoy and see the lift it gives you

 

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The Spiritual Warrior: Strength for Inner Growth

When you think of a warrior, you picture strength, focus, and resilience – classic masculine energy.

But what if those traits could do more than win battles? What if they could guide you toward personal growth and a deeper connection with your spiritual side?

The warrior’s path is using your natural strengths to explore and expand your inner world.

Discipline: The Warrior’s Best Weapon

A warrior trains every day, and the spiritual path is no different. Discipline is key. But don’t worry; you don’t need hours of meditation or complex rituals.

Start small. Spend 10 minutes each morning in silence, focusing on your breath or setting an intention for the day.

It’s a simple habit that builds inner strength, helping you stay grounded when life throws challenges your way.

Leadership with Purpose

True warriors lead not just others but themselves.

Warriors live with purpose, aligning their actions with their values.

Ask yourself: What truly matters to me? When you focus your energy on meaningful goals, life becomes richer, and even everyday tasks can feel fulfilling.

Guarding Your Inner World

A warrior doesn’t just fight battles, he also defends what matters. Spiritually, this means protecting your energy.

Set boundaries, avoid draining situations, and make time for things that replenish your soul.

Guarding your well-being isn’t selfish – it’s the foundation for showing up as your best self.

Strength in Vulnerability

Here’s the twist: the strongest warriors aren’t always wearing armour.

The strongest warriors are brave enough to admit when they’re struggling and open their hearts to connection.

Vulnerability is where growth happens – it’s how we learn, heal, and truly connect with ourselves and others.

The Takeaway

The warrior’s path isn’t about conquering the outside world. It’s about mastering your inner one. By channelling your strength, focus, and leadership into spiritual growth, you can create a life of purpose, resilience, and fulfillment.

Take a breath, set your intention, and step forward with courage. Your inner warrior has got this.

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Unlocking Inner Wisdom: Simple Steps to Awaken Your Intuition

In a world filled with distractions, many women long to reconnect with their intuition – their own inner compass. Intuition is that deep inner knowing, the voice within that senses things beyond logic. Strengthening this connection is a powerful way to navigate life’s challenges and decisions with confidence and clarity.

Here are some practical ways to tune into your intuition and cultivate a life guided by your inner wisdom.

1. Create Moments of Stillness

To hear your intuition, start by creating space for stillness in your life. Intuition often speaks softly, so slowing down is essential. This doesn’t have to be lengthy – even five minutes in the morning can make a difference. Find a quiet spot, close your eyes, and focus on your breath. In this relaxed state, you’re more open to the subtle whispers of your intuition.

Personally, I find when I am doing a big pile of ironing, I can hear my intuition loud and clear. I am focused on the ironing but another part of me engages with my intuition. I get some great messages of love, guidance and inspiration while ironing.

2. Trust the “Gut Feeling”

We’ve all felt that “gut feeling”- a sense of knowing without fully understanding why. These intuitive nudges are valuable, often arising from deep awareness. Start paying attention to this feeling, especially in uncertain situations. You might notice a sense of ease or tension with different choices. Trusting this reaction, even in small decisions. It helps you build a stronger relationship with your intuition over time.

3. Try Journaling for Reflection

Journaling can be a powerful tool to uncover your inner voice. Take a few minutes each day to write down your thoughts, feelings, and any intuitive insights. If you’re wrestling with a decision, try free writing without overthinking. Letting your thoughts flow onto the page can reveal insights that deepen your self-understanding, helping you connect with the wisdom beneath the surface.

4. Practice Mindfulness Daily

Mindfulness keeps you connected to the present, making you fully aware of what’s happening within and around you. Practicing mindfulness – whether through breathing exercises, mindful walking, or focusing on a task – opens the doorway to greater intuitive awareness. By staying grounded in the now, you’re more likely to notice subtle signals that can guide you.

5. Embrace Your Dreams

Dreams are often rich with intuitive guidance. Keep a journal by your bed to record any dreams upon waking. Over time, you might notice recurring themes or symbols that resonate with you. Trust that dreams can be a gateway to deeper wisdom, helping you see aspects of yourself and life from a new perspective.

6. Let Go of Self-Doubt

Building intuition requires trust in yourself. Self-doubt is one of the biggest barriers to intuition, keeping you from embracing what you sense or feel. If you struggle with this, try affirmations like “I trust my inner voice” or “My intuition guides me wisely.” Releasing self-doubt is essential to building a clear, empowered connection to your intuition.

If all else fails, start listening and taking action on small things so you can build up your confidence over time. Don’t think it can only be used for lofty guidance. I use mine when I have lost my reading glasses!

 

By nurturing these practices, you’ll cultivate a powerful bond with your inner wisdom. Trust that you hold the answers you seek; all you need is the space and willingness to listen.

Your intuition is a gift – an inner guide ready to support you every step of the way.