Men: 3 tips for surviving Christmas

Published by Alison Wem on

The approach to Christmas can be a challenging time. Not only is it a busy time for the person preparing the Christmas Day celebrations, but tension can run in families where couples do not agree on the style of celebrations. Do you recognise the scenario?
Lets look at some tips for the man of the house….. Tip #1  Remember your partner is doing their best to make Christmas a joyous and happy time for all. A little encouragement can go a long way. Tip #2 Rather than complain about the amount of money being spent, try to find some alternative treats or better still make or cook some. Tip #3 Try not to be grumpy if the treats you want are not the same as those your loved ones want. Flexibility at least for Christmas Day will bring family harmony. Apologies for these suggestions to the men who are encouraging, relaxed about the money being spent and flexible with doing what the rest of the family wants on Christmas Day…… 3 tips tomorrow for women on surviving Christmas.
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1. Morning Stillness (5 minutes)

Start the day in silence. Before reaching for your phone or diving into tasks, sit quietly with your eyes closed and your feet on the ground. Take a few deep breaths. Ask yourself:

Who do I want to be today?

This moment of intention sets the tone for everything that follows.

2. Move with Purpose

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3. Grounding Rituals Throughout the Day

In a busy world, it’s easy to lose your centre. Simple rituals can bring you back:

  • Three deep breaths before responding in a tense moment
  • A walk in nature between meetings
  • Placing your hand on your heart before making a tough decision

These small pauses reconnect you with your inner authority – calm, conscious, and aligned.

4. Evening Reflection (10 minutes)

End your day by checking in:

What did I do well today? What challenged me? What can I release before I sleep?

Journaling or quiet reflection here helps strengthen emotional awareness and build resilience over time.

Grounded masculinity is not about being hard or unshakable – it’s about being rooted. These rituals won’t just improve your focus or mood. They help you become the kind of man who walks with presence, speaks with intention, and lives with quiet strength.

In structure, there is freedom. In ritual, there is renewal.

Do you have a daily practice that helps you stay grounded? Or are you just starting to explore what grounded masculinity means for you?

I’d love to hear your thoughts – share your rituals or reflections in the comments below.

 

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At Your Soul Family, we’ve always believed that we are more than just a website. Behind every reading, every message, and every voice on the other end of the line is a real person. A soul. A seeker. A member of a growing spiritual community.

And that’s exactly what we are – a community.

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You are welcome here.

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Positivity supports your health and well-being

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Let your words set the tone for a day lived on purpose, with hope in your heart.

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