Feeling tired? Take this simple action to balance your energy

Remembrance Sunday for the end of World War I is this weekend. Personally I had not fully appreciated the scale of the losses and the impact on many communities. I was moved by a map of Newcastle which showed a red dot for each person who died. I was amazed at how many there were in each street. Some households must have lost father and sons. I cannot begin to imagine how you cope with such overwhelming losses.

The ‘Shrouds of the Somme’ exhibit by Rob Heard installed at the Queen Elizabeth Olympic Park, London conveys the scale of loss at the Battle of the Somme. There is a sea of shrouded dolls with each one representing an individual whose body was not found after the battle. The figures go on and on and is a poignant reminder of the impact of war. read more

Finding Your Soul Family: FREE advance copy?

Finding Your Soul Family – the second book in the Your Soul Family series is due to be published as an e-book and print book before Christmas.  This book is about getting back in touch with your ‘inner you’ for calmness. Great for managing anxiety and stress in your life plus finding out more about yourself.

Get an advance print copy to provide your feedback before it is published.

Part 1 contains many of the exercises used in Your Soul Family workshops along with student feedback and examples plus a case study.  It has easy to do steps to design and build your soul map enabling you to find a place of calmness, connect with your ‘inner you’ to re-discover your personal wisdom and to create more harmony in your life. read more

Understand the bigger picture of your life: Discover your Soul Community

Tel: +44 7966 137568  Email: alison.wem@yoursoulfamily.com

Need a treat for yourself? 

This day is just the thing for you. You get a whole day to let the child in you out. You cut out geometric shapes and stick them to brown paper to create the framework of your picture. Painting this picture brings in a calmness many long to experience. Often you gain insight into relationships and life lessons beyond your immediate Soul Family. It is a great way to understand challenges and manage stress in your life. read more

YSF Autumn 2020 Programme

Group Class – via Zoom

Spiritual Development 

6 week evening course to gain more insight into yourself, your soul family and where your life is going. Commences on the 14th October 2020 via Zoom. No problem if you have missed the start date. Just make contact with Alison so she can prepare for you joining.

Book now £10 per session pay-as-you-go

Individual Sessions with Alison Wem

Private appointment – Soul Map reading

Receive a Soul Map reading from Alison Wem to help with the key messages your ‘inner you’ is trying to share with you.   Sessions held using Skype or face to face in London. You will need to choose a template, colour it before the session and send it to Alison. Book here read more

New soul map template: hexagram inspired template for balance

Hexagram template is here!

Download our latest template to be published.  Inspired by the hexagram, it represents balance or striving for balance in your life, with your partner and in your soul family.  Remember your soul family includes more than blood family.  Its members also include anyone important to you – blood family, adopted family, in-laws, friends, colleagues.

Treat yourself to some ‘me’ time and paint the template to make it your own soul map.  As you colour feel the relaxation and calmness come in.  In today’s world that feeling is such a wonderful tonic. read more

Women: do they make good coaches?

When I started my career in IT, I was often the only woman on the team.  What I observed was that men operated differently and I had to learn to adapt to a new set of team social rules.  In my experience men are;

  • much more direct
  • may even shout at you when irritated
  • not hold a grudge afterwards.

Having a mentor to help with this learning became an imperative for me and was enormously beneficial.

If like me you are in the second half of your career, you may have ruminated on how you operate in the workplace.  Meeting up with a former manager from my youth, he reminded me how when I first worked for him I did not speak up in a group situation, even when he knew I had some good ideas.  This is not an uncommon trait in a woman at work. read more