Your Soul Family: choose the cover for the next book

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I would really appreciate your views on which cover to choose for my next book Finding Your Soul Family.

Here is the first book, still in the process of being published.

I am building a series of books which progresses you through the Your Soul Family (YSF) techniques to achieve a greater understanding of yourself and your life, plus personal development through accelerated learning of life lessons.  With this personal development comes calmness, harmony and wisdom.

I would like the book covers to reflect this journey through life and the increased awareness from self to being part of an eternal soul family. Your chakra colours of red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, mauve reflects the communications you are having with your soul family and your personal development.  You have all achieved red as you are living a life in a physical body and managing to feed, clothe and house yourself.

The first book had tones of orange and yellow which denotes abundance, self-esteem, self-worth and being in control of your life.  Creating your first soul map is about self-analysis, identifying your life lessons and who is helping you with them.  It connects you with your ‘inner you’ and starts to show you the possible transformations you can bring to your life.

The second book goes much deeper with exercises to bring you fresh insight and examples, student feedback and a case study to help you to understand.  I have chosen green as the primary colour for the book cover.  This is the colour of the heart chakra as Finding Your Soul Family is a conversation from my heart to you.

The primary purpose of the book is to expand your knowledge of yourself and your soul family.  However there is a key discourse on whether you might be an eternal being living a life in a physical body to aid learning your life lessons.  Knowledge is drawn from many cultures and differing techniques to explore whether there is any truth in this view.  Past lives and understanding the knowledge and wisdom to potentially be extracted from a past life experience is the concluding discussion in the Epilogue.  Green I feel is an important colour for personal growth.

 

Above are the 3 options the cover designer has given me.  Please feedback your preferences on the contact form below.  All feedback is very helpful and will be given consideration.

Thanks in anticipation of your assistance.

Love, Alison

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Of course I would love it if you tried one of my books. One of my favourites is Secrets of Your Soul. There are lots of lovely little stories of past lives. They are easy to read and come with an illustration. A good read with some spiritual messages. If you hurry, there is still time to order it and get it delivered before Christmas.

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