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Calmness - Harmony - Wisdom

Alison Wem

Receive intuitive life guidance for where you are in your life. Learn to reduce your stress and achieve calmness for clarity of thought and wellbeing.

About Your Soul Family

Easy to follow steps and excercises to gain insight into yourself to enable you to construct reflective soul art, your soul map, a picture of you and your life.

Your Soul Family Workshops

Gain insight into your life choices to enhance the next chapter of your life. You will receive guidance on increasing your awareness of yourself and your needs.

Your Soul Family Services

Move beyond a challenge to live a happy, contented and fun-filled life

Dream Circle

Want to explore your dream land, be conscious and able to retell the story of your journey?

Try the easy-to-follow Active Dreaming technique to go on exciting adventures, meet passed loved ones and your spirit guides.

Follow the moon beam and discover who has come to meet you.

 

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Spiritual Development Guidance

The path of spiritual development can be a lonely one

But it need not be so….

Are unusual things happening in your inner landscape? Or perhaps your perceptions of the world have shifted and you are not sure what it means or if it’s even real.

Talk with Alison to help you to understand your life and spiritual gifts. She will;

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  • Energy Healing session

    A wonderful time to relax and receive well-being and love from the Universe.

    Alison will:

    • re-balance your chakras and your soul will accept the healing you need,
    • assist in the arrival of calmness with inner peace,
    • discuss what you felt and assist you to understand what you body and soul have received.

    60 minute session available over zoom. It is a simple …

    Intuitive Wisdom one-to-one session

    Meet with Alison Wem and discuss your hopes, desires and challenges.

    You are learning much by just living. Talking about your life gives greater clarity on your life lessons and what you have learnt so far. You may also be in the process of learning new life lessons. Identifying them will make them easier to learn and life more comfortable.

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    Your Soul Family Publications

    Alison moved forward from widowhood to find an inner strength and wisdom she did not know she possessed. She did this through going within for love and guidance, the subject of her soul book series Your Soul Family. Each book guides you in exploring an aspect of you and your life.

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    From Warrior to Sage: A Man’s Spiritual Journey with Age

    There comes a point in every man’s life when the need to prove himself softens, and something deeper begins to stir. It’s not about winning the race anymore but understanding the journey. This is the awakening of the Inner Sage.

    In earlier life, men often embodied the warrior archetype – driven, goal-focused, resilient. But as the years unfold, a quieter, more profound calling begins to emerge. It’s the transition from warrior to wise elder. A spiritual shift that invites men to become mentors, guides, and keepers of wisdom.

    This doesn’t mean becoming passive or stepping back from life; it means stepping into a new kind of strength that comes from lived experience, emotional maturity, and the courage to speak truth with compassion.

    What is the Inner Sage?

    The Inner Sage is the part of you that sees beyond ego and competition. It understands that success is not only what you build, but what you pass on. It listens more than it speaks, yet when it does speak, the words carry weight.

    This role is deeply needed today. In a world that often glorifies youth and speed, the presence of a grounded, wise man is a gift to families, communities, and especially to younger generations searching for guidance in uncertain times.

    How to Embrace the Sage Within
    • Reflect on your life lessons. What has hardship taught you? What have love and loss revealed? These become the stories worth sharing.
    • Mentor with humility. You don’t need all the answers, just a willingness to walk alongside someone else as they find theirs.
    • Speak the truth, but gently. Wisdom shared with kindness often lands more deeply than words said with force.
    • Create sacred space. Whether through ritual, prayer, or simply holding presence, your calm energy can be a sanctuary for others.

    Later life is not a decline, it’s a spiritual expansion. You’ve earned your scars, your insight, your calm presence. Now is the time to use them not to fight, but to guide.

    The world needs your wisdom. Your presence matters. Step into the role of sage—you were made for this.

    Are you feeling the call to share your wisdom? Or perhaps you’re walking alongside a sage in your own life?

    I’d love to hear your reflections. Share a story, a lesson, or a truth you’ve discovered on your journey. Your words may be just what someone else needs to hear.

    Grounded and Strong: Daily Rituals for the Modern Man

    In a world that demands so much from men – strength, performance, resilience – it’s easy to lose touch with the deeper qualities of grounded masculinity: presence, purpose, and peace. One of the most powerful tools to support men in this journey is structure, not rigid schedules, but intentional rituals that anchor the day.

    Rituals are more than habits. They are acts of meaning. They create a sacred rhythm that connects the outer world of responsibilities with the inner world of spirit and intention. For men seeking to stay centred, spiritual, and purpose-driven, here are some simple yet powerful daily practices to support grounded masculinity.

    1. Morning Stillness (5 minutes)

    Start the day in silence. Before reaching for your phone or diving into tasks, sit quietly with your eyes closed and your feet on the ground. Take a few deep breaths. Ask yourself:

    Who do I want to be today?

    This moment of intention sets the tone for everything that follows.

    2. Move with Purpose

    Masculine energy thrives in motion. Whether it’s a walk, a short workout, or mindful stretching, begin your day with conscious movement. Let it be less about performance, more about presence. Feel your body. Notice where your energy is. Moving with awareness reconnects you to strength in a balanced, grounded way.

    3. Grounding Rituals Throughout the Day

    In a busy world, it’s easy to lose your centre. Simple rituals can bring you back:

    • Three deep breaths before responding in a tense moment
    • A walk in nature between meetings
    • Placing your hand on your heart before making a tough decision

    These small pauses reconnect you with your inner authority – calm, conscious, and aligned.

    4. Evening Reflection (10 minutes)

    End your day by checking in:

    What did I do well today? What challenged me? What can I release before I sleep?

    Journaling or quiet reflection here helps strengthen emotional awareness and build resilience over time.

    Grounded masculinity is not about being hard or unshakable – it’s about being rooted. These rituals won’t just improve your focus or mood. They help you become the kind of man who walks with presence, speaks with intention, and lives with quiet strength.

    In structure, there is freedom. In ritual, there is renewal.

    Do you have a daily practice that helps you stay grounded? Or are you just starting to explore what grounded masculinity means for you?

    I’d love to hear your thoughts – share your rituals or reflections in the comments below.

     

    On the Brink or Becoming Better? Humanity’s Crossroads

    The question may seem dramatic, but in light of our environmental crises, social upheavals, and global conflicts, it’s one worth asking. To explore this, let’s examine three key themes: the tension between science and spirituality, the role of human behaviour in global issues, and how personal evolution can guide us toward a better future.

    1. Science versus Spirituality

    Science provides us with knowledge; spirituality offers us meaning. Both are essential to understanding our place in the Universe.

    • Science has brought immense progress: life expectancy has doubled in the last century, and space exploration, AI, and renewable energy all demonstrate our capacity for innovation.
    • Spirituality, on the other hand, reminds us of deeper truths. Belief in reincarnation and the Karmic wheel suggests that we are here to learn soul lessons and evolve across lifetimes. Our actions have consequences beyond this life.

    When we only rely on science, we risk losing connection with the soul. When we only rely on spirituality, we may lose sight of practical action. Balance is essential.

    1. How Do We Explain Our Behaviour?

    Our collective behaviour is shaping the state of the world – and not always for the better.

    • Ongoing conflicts like Ukraine, Syria, and Israel-Palestine reflect cycles of pain, trauma, and power struggles.
    • Political divisiveness, seen in figures like Donald Trump – amplifies fear and separation.

    What drives this behaviour? Often fear, ego, greed, and the desire for control. These are human tendencies that, when unchecked, lead to destruction.

    But we are not powerless. Our choices matter, especially when made with compassion, presence, and awareness.

    1. Man’s Nature Is to Evolve

    Despite the turmoil, we are capable of growth. Our nature is to evolve – not just biologically, but spiritually and emotionally.

    • Learning life lessons – often through loss, change, and challenge is part of the soul’s journey.
    • Even simple actions, such as pausing to take three deep breaths before responding, can shift outcomes and foster self-awareness.

    Self-reflection, emotional intelligence, and conscious behaviour help us align with what is truly good. We begin to ask not just “What do I want?” but “What impact will this have?”

    Conclusion: So, Are We Destroying Ourselves?

    We could be – if we remain disconnected from each other, the planet, and our inner wisdom.

    But we also hold the capacity to heal, transform, and grow. The future of humanity depends on both collective responsibility and personal awareness. Every small act of kindness, every moment of pause, every brave truth spoken contributes to a different outcome.

    The world is shaped by our choices. Let’s choose wisely.

    What do you think? Are we on a path of destruction or awakening? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

    Share your reflections or personal practices that help you stay centred in these challenging times. Together, we can grow the conversationan – and the consciousness.

    Get in touch!

    Email:alison.wem@yoursoulfamily.com
    Telephone:+44 (0)7966137568
    London Workshop Locations:
    London Spiritual Mission, 13 Pembridge Place, Notting Hill, London, W2 4XB
    College of Psychic Studies, 16 Queensberry Place, London, SW7 2EB

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